The theme of my time on this earth. When my mum discovered she was pregnant with me I'm sure she came out with "I totally planned that", which she may of done but the reality and what the baby books say are very different.
So here I am in my mid 40's, with a life that I totally planned, and haven't lurched from one fuck up to the next, honest.
I refuse to regret anything that has happened throughout my life, as without it I wouldn't be who I am and where I am now, not that my life is great, actually it's far from it, but I have my kids, who are older teenagers, who I have a great relationship with, not to mention the 2, now adults I have taken on, when they were teenagers because like myself they had had a very shitty time.
This seems to be a go to question for people, as if believing in some magic man in the sky will make a difference, you seem to hear it a lot when you have mental health issues. My answer,
People plan things, I have a friend that loves writing lists, putting it up on the fridge and ticking them off once accomplished. Now I'm not talking a shopping list, or even a things to do this week, although I'm sure they have them too. I'm talking 5 year plans, yes, just like you get at an interview.
The ramblings of someone who has had more lemons thrown at them, than mouthfuls of communion wine slurped by the pope.
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